Breaking Patterns
I'm 27 years old......and at this point in my life I would like to think I am settled. I view things the way I view them. My opinions are what they are. I have become a creature of my own habits. I am accustomed to a certain pattern of behavior. I do things the way I have always done them. I love a certain way, I hurt a certain way, I fight a certain way. All because I am comfortable with doing things a certain way.....the way I have always done them. At what point though do you take a step back to really evaluate the "certain" way you do things? When do you accept that change might be in order after discovering that your "certain" way of doing things isn't necessarily right? Or even healthy? My mind is permanently set to Fight Mode. Growing up with my father it had to be. Everything was an argument. Each and every issue (small or large) was a battle. I trained myself to plan ahead....always try to be one step ahead of my dad so that I could always win the...